The loss of libido in men, can lead to feelings of shame, create unhappiness in other areas of their lives and put huge amounts of stress on their relationship. But loss of libido is NOT something you have to live with. There is much you can do to regain your sex drive and your happy outlook on life. Many men and couples can be helped with the assistance of a sex therapist, to explore what is happening within the relationship or for the individual for what is causing low libido.